Alexandra K. Mosca and Doris V. Amen are licensed funeral directors in New York City, known for their expertise and unique experiences. They are trusted voices in their field, helping people navigate the funeral process. They provide valuable content on their website and serve as role models for aspiring female funeral directors.

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People often assume choosing a funeral director is a simple, transactional decision—pick a place, sign a few papers, and the rest somehow takes care of itself. But from where we stand, behind the arrangement desk and beside the grieving, the choice is far more intimate than most people realize. And when a family chooses a…

This morning, I saw that my article, “A December Gathering,” is now the most-read piece on Kates-Boylston’s (the parent company of ‘American Cemetery & Cremation’ magazine) website. I was surprised at first, but upon reflection, it makes sense. Writing about the Eppig mausoleum at St. John Cemetery was one of those rare times when my…

In funeral service, we live with the reality that our work is misunderstood. Misinformation circulates easily, and unfortunately, even our own national organization sometimes adds to the confusion. Recently, a member service representative sent out a message that included this laughable line: “Much like nurses, you’re often on call and navigating long days that rarely…

Every week, our state association, the NYSFDA, sends out a newsletter intended to inform and support funeral directors. In theory, this should be a valuable resource—something that keeps us connected, updated, and empowered in our work. In practice, however, the content often feels misaligned with the realities of our profession. This week’s edition was no…









